Monday, May 15, 2006

mother's day


yesterday was mother's day. everybody knows that. i knew also. i told here before that i dont like to say happy birthday. "amar loijja lage...:P". so i was thinking and feeling that i must give mom as an appreciation, as a token of my love to her. but amar loijja lage....:(... so i told myself i have my own income and should give something.

u must be thinking that i am some alien landed from some outer space. but there is reason for me to feel a little shy about the whole fact. we are three brothers and as kids used to fight and mess up the home every now and then. my mom used to take care of us, the home and also had to attend her job. as a result she never had the time to spent her time cuddling and kissing us a lot. so i grew up thinking that it is very normal that moms dont do that as u grow up. i understood my mom loves me so much only when i get seriously ill. and as a kid i sometimes pretended as if im very much ill, to get close to her. well i dont blame her. she had a lot of other worldly things to do. later on mom used to scold us for being so quite and never talking in the home even with my brothers. a gap was built between us. we like each other, but dont express them. so i was thinkin what my mom will think and how she will react to get the gift from me? and how am i going to give it to her. thinkin about it makes me laugh.

eventually i bought a locket with a pair of earrings. i was happy at the end, coz my mom was happy and beaming with proud, which made me feel proud myself. thanx mom....:)

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

sala age kobi na..taile amio kisu kintam :(

aragorn said...

ho... tumi bashay choila gesila... ami ki korte pari!!!

Manzur's Lonely Planet said...

tareq ... i wish your mom had read this post!

well ... always I think that u should express your feelings ... coz shob shomoy ki bujha jae? maje maje bojhateo hoe :)

Odbhut Ae Meyeti said...

Yeah I know what you mean...I couldnot wish mom either..its just odd...I mean I know how much she has done for me and the family...and still doing...

Its impossibl to express the gratitude in words..I just cant get it. Making 1 day of the year as the mother's day and celebrating it..wishing her..is just not good enough...never enough...

Just my personal opinion...

aragorn said...

ahhh... there is someone who actually understood my feelings... thanx samara

and shovan...i wish i get used to it[expressing feeling]...:)

Anonymous said...

heh! amare abbu eshe mone koray dise shedin mothers day chilo! jonmodin'i mone thake na tar abar oto gula day :S ... ami abar shob kichutei late... r wish korate to ami khubi anari... karo bday ashle parle polay thaki wish korar bhoye :P ...

to mothers day'r porer din ami r bon dokane gelam kisu kinte... bon jeita tule ami uhu kori... or abar shob pochondo hoi :S ... amar ekta shirt pochondo hoilo... tao thik boyoshupojogi na... sheishob chere chure gelam jewelery'r dokane... ek chinese beti boshe ase...tare jiggesh korlam diamond er nose pin ase naki... fazil beti amader "$5 each" er ekta box er dike dekhalo... rage dukhkhe ami dilam banglay gali besh koyekta... amar bon tene ber korse okhan theke... sheshporjonto chete giye koek bag chips kine khete khete bashay eshe porsi :(

aragorn said...

audity, tumi o dekhi amar dole... amaro wish korte bhoy lage...:P

faisal said...

abedin shala tumi tomar mayer jonno kinba tao onner kena dekhe...nije kinte paro na???

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